This issue sprang to mind a few days ago when I realised how many young women are being controlled in today's society. I find it so hard to digest that young women can allow their boyfriends to control and abuse them. Ladies don't you know that you can find so much better, remember that marrying that person will destroy you.
Many women long to be loved so badly that they would endure just about anything by that person. If he makes you feel guilty for small things?, and he knows exactly what to say to make you feel a certain way and makes you cry?....you are being controlled emotionally and you better wake up and send him packing.
Many boyfriends control their girlfriends because they can and it is allowed, only you can put a stop to it. Trying to make things work after it is visibly clear that the relationship is doomed is placing yourself in a position of more heatache and pain. As women we allow ourselves to be humiliated and treated as a floor rugs because we want to believe that the heartache is all in the name of love. After all love is pain right? Wrong...real love treats you like gold and you'll feel loved no matter how much you change, or weight you gain.
Women need to realise that being controlled is letting yourself go, you become who that person wants you to be as your actions and words would be done to please them. Do not allow a man to change you, and take the sparkle away that shines brightly in your eyes.
Women always remember you deserve better in life and you will receive better if you open your eyes and just "let it go" make peace, stand tall and become a strong, bold women.
Do not allow to be controlled and abused...Stop it today....
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I think some women allow themselves to be controlled because they are afraid of ending up alone. I say rather alone and happy than with someone and controlled. Women are the greatest gift God could give men.
ReplyDeleteWow, you made very good points Donna.
ReplyDeleteI think it boils down to getting out of your comfort zone especially if you and your partner have been together for a long time. But then again that should not be an excuse to be emotionally abused, or abused in general.